The Most Important Message You Should Hear Before Entering 2010.

I try not to link very many videos, but this message will literally change the way you enter into this new year. The worst thing you can do is enter into a new year with an old mindset, and I can tell just by the plans that I’m watching many of my peers make for tonight’s celebration that 2010 is going to just be another 2009 for most, if not worse, because their mind has yet to change with the year. New wine in old wineskins will not work. You don’t need a new year to change – you need a new mind.

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Romans 12:2)

This message changed so much for me. If you really want to change in this new year, give it a shot. A lifetime of change is worth 30-40 minutes of your time, isn’t it?

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Christmas Music!

So, what’s in your Christmas music collection this year TJ?

I’m glad you asked.

Topping things off is, without a doubt, one of my favorite Christmas albums by one of my favorite singers. It’s called “It’s Christmas” by Ledisi. This project simply hits on all cylinders. The sound, the vocals, the instruments, the arrangements – it’s all done with pure elegance, style, and soul. In fact, to be honest, this is a project that I play year round! It really is banging. Some of my favorite tracks include: “Thank You”, “Be There For Christmas”, “This Christmas (Could be the One)”, “Children Go Where I Send Thee”, “Give Love on Christmas Day”, and “What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve?”. Love it!

My collection also sees rotation from the likes of Israel and the New Breed and their newly repackaged holiday album, “A Timeless Christmas”. This is another one that receives year round treatment. The arrangements and mix on this project are bananas, and it’s a collection I quickly fell in love with. Speaking of Israel, his colleague, Aaron Lindsey, also has a new Christmas album out that receives major rotation. It’s called “Coming Home For the Holidays” and it oozes with the pure mastery and excellence that we’ve come to expect from the infamous producer.

The Clark Sisters join the party with their own Christmas album entitled “Family Christmas”, which has been one of the stand out projects of the entire 2009 year. Also included in my list is “New Msg: The Christ-Must Album” by one of my favorite talents, YPJ & FVC. If you haven’t heard a project from these guys, you seriously need to do yourself the favor. This album is not only musically enjoyable, but fun and entertaining. I love it.

Mary Mary, Kirk Franklin, Norman Hutchins, The Pace Family, and a host of others also help round out my Christmas music collection this year. It’s great to have good holiday music that you can bundle into a playlist, hit shuffle, and enjoy. If you’re still looking for some good music to heighten your holiday spirits, check out some of these. They receive TJ’s stamp of approval, so you won’t be dissapointed :) .


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Like You Own The Place

Had some last minute christmas shopping to do today.

For some reason, as I was shopping, I was reminded of an episode of Run’s House where Run was shopping for something totally random. What stuck out to me was his demeanor as he browsed the store. His walk and talk gave off the impression that he owned the store (He didn’t, BTW). He shopped with confidence and style and the employees yielded to that impression.

Must be one of the perks of being a celebrity.

But wait…I’m the son of a celebrity even bigger than Rev. Run!

The King of Kings…The Lord of Lords…The one who holds this entire galaxy in the palm of His hands…the one whose voice even the winds and seas obey.

There wouldn’t even be a “Reverend” Run without Him. :)

Ask around…everyone knows who He is.

Walked this earth over 2000 years ago, and people are STILL talking about Him.

…and He calls me son.

With that thought in mind, I stuck out my chest and waltzed into that (expensive) store like I owned the place. Told the clerk what I wanted and she pointed me to the best they had…even gift-wrapped it for free!

That’s a confidence we as children of God have a right to take with us, not just in the shopping store, but in Life. Our father is the greatest power and He has not given a spirit of fear, but one of…you guessed it…Power. Also one of love and a sound mind.

Know who you are and walk like you know it. That’s all I’m saying.

“So we can confidently say, The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?” -Hebrews 13:6

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What Idolatry Taught Me.

Once upon a time, not too long ago, I fell into a pit of Idolatry. God was temporarily dethroned as number one in my life. I didn’t even realize I had fallen into Idolatry until a sermon by Pastor Mark Driscoll made it painfully (very painfully) clear to me.

But being in that state of Idolatry, while not good in itself, taught me something very important. It taught me this lesson:

Everyone knows HOW to worship, but most people don’t know WHO to worship. Many know who they are supposed to worship, but fail to act on what they know.

My idol was a person (who shall remain nameless :) ). I’d become so intrigued by this person, that it engulfed me. My thoughts constantly centered around them. My decisions centered around them. My ambitions and goals centered around them. Everything centered around them.

It even got to a point where I was attempting to use God in order to get closer to them.

I had perfected worship…but I’d yielded it to the wrong person.

When I look back at that period in my life, it gives the old familiar hymn, Amazing Grace, a brand new meaning, because truly I was lost – but thank God He found me. He could’ve left me there to die in my idolatry. He could’ve gave me over to the little wanna-be god I’d created. But He didn’t. Like the Hero He continues to be, He swooped in and saved the day for this kid.

So, in response, I attempted to rework myself in order to please Him – but my spirit told me that I didn’t need to change the way I worshiped, I just ed change the object of my worshipful affection. Replace the idol with the one and true God so that my thoughts, decisions, ambitions, goals, and everything else that once centered around that idol now center around HIM instead.

I knew HOW to worship – and now I knew WHO to worship.

When anything or anyone takes precedence over God in your life, you’ve fallen into Idolatry. It’s the biggest sin plaguing this world, yet the one in which most people are blindest to. Church goers are blind to the fact that their God is the building, and not the savior. College students are blind to the fact that their God is their ‘career’, and not the redeemer. Husbands are blind to the fact that their God is their wife, and not the Messiah. Vice versa for the wives.

So many are blind to their idols – it’s scary. Even scarier is the fact that so many are so unwilling to be brutally honest with themselves, that they very well may end up dying in their idolatry.

Our worship is perfect, but the subject of our worship is all messed up.

We know HOW to worship…Father, please show us that you’re the only one worthy of that worship.

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Praying: Specific or Broad?

So the question I had was this: When petitioning God for something, should I be specific about what I desire, or should I take a more broad approach, praying that His will be done? One of the answers I received was to pray for qualities rather than specifics. In other words, instead of praying for a specific job, pray for the qualities of the job you desire and allow God to lead you where He may.

Of course, this yielded more questions.

So I took my own advice and trusted the Christ inside of me for the answer. The resulting answer was this:

Praying for something specific is cool, but praying for the qualities takes more faith…and, after all, it IS impossible to please God without faith. You make a plan and you conjure up the belief that your plan is best. It hinders your ability to pray in faith, because you’ve already made up in your mind that your plan is perfect and right, and you fear that if you turn things over to God, He’ll mess up the plan or choose something totally different.

It’s a trust issue.

If the specific thing you’re praying for is a good thing and fits all of the qualifications, why wouldn’t God bless you with it? Does He not delight in granting His children good things?

“Is it not from the mouth of the Most High that both calamities and good things come?” (Lamentations 3:38)

“Who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.” (Psalm 103:5)

“For he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” (Psalm 107:9)

Talk to God about the whole issue and trust His ability to not only provide, but provide the best. He knows what you want, but most importantly, He knows what you need. Sometimes the two coincide, sometimes they don’t. His decision, however, is always the best one.  Trust that.

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Contacts Page

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I Dig This Song…

I’m not a huge Chris Brown fan. Only like 3 of his songs have warranted repeats in my iTunes library. However, I heard good things about his latest outing (“Graffiti”) and decided to check it out. I actually enjoy the album. This particular song, though, gripped me from the first time I heard it. It drips with a raw emotion not often seen from the party-inclined pop star. It’s called “I’ll Go”. Enjoy.

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Have a Question? You Might Have The Answer Too…

Simply put, not every question is supposed to have an arithmetic answer.

Life is full of complex notions and mind-boggling wonders – but a lot of us have lived long enough to realize that most questions bear a simple answer. There’s something that I’ve been petitioning God desperately for, and deep down I knew the answer to the question I’d been posing before Him, but I was hesitant to rely on that answer because I wasn’t sure whether or not it was God-inspired or just flesh trying to figure things out.

But we must remember, we have Christ dwelling on the inside of us. A lot of us are too afraid to trust the Christ that dwells in us. We’d rather have some miraculous sign appear out of nowhere rather than spend time nurturing the Christ that dwells in us in order that it may grow thus enabling us to yield our trust to it. We feed it every negative and vulgar thing we come across (music, movies, magazines, gossip, websites, etc.) and it results in a malfunctioned spirit. In times of difficulty where an answer is desperately needed, a malfunctioned spirit can only produce a malfunctioned solution.

What am I saying? Nurture the Christ in you with good and noble things (Prayer, Bible Study, Fellowship with Godly people) and when the time comes where you need direction, you’ll be more apt to trust that Christ inside of you. I once heard someone say “I bet the Obama’s don’t have their kids watching BET”. That suggested to me that they cared about what their children gave access to in their lives. They didn’t want a negative-thinking, stereotypical child, so they cut off the mediums which brought forth such influences. A lot of us, myself especially, need to do the same…unless, of course, we’re just content with being stuck in that pathetic rut.

Sometimes the answer is simple – and most of the time the answer is this: Because you’re not ready. You can’t have this, because you’re not ready. You can’t go there, because you’re not ready. You can’t do that, because you’re not ready.

Solution? Get ready.

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Free Your Mind About God

One of the snares that I watch many, including myself, fall into is the snare that brings about the belief that God is like us. We often take the flaws of man and impose them upon a Holy and Just God whose ways are in no wise comparable to ours. It’s a trap that strangles the way we talk to God (prayer), the way we react to situations, our expectations of God, and, ultimately, our overall hope. A snare. A trap.

The result? Prayers that aim at convincing God to do things our way – as if He hasn’t already made his objective of doing what’s absolutely and divinely best for us crystal clear. The result? Worry – as if He hasn’t proved himself willing and capable time and time before of handling your little issue.

The result? Paganism – spending hours reciting a whole bunch of fancy, church-approved words and slogans as if prayer was performance hour rather than a time to be straight-forward, raw and, most importantly, honest with your Father who already knows what you’re really feeling anyways.

The result? Doubt – God can’t really do what He says He can do, can He? Of all the times I’ve had empty promises and claims made to me…why should I believe Him? The result? Fear – as if He’s too powerless to protect you from the storms and the people that HE created.

The result? Nonchalant attitudes. I can spend my free time playing meaningless games on facebook (Bejeweled, Mafia…y’know)…He won’t mind. The result? Frustration – because at some point you’ll realize that this plastic image you’ve built of God isn’t working.

The point? God isn’t like us. He doesn’t lie like us. He isn’t envious like us. He isn’t self-centered like us. He isn’t heartless like us. He isn’t flawed like us.

If you really believe that, act like it.

Stop exhausting all of your prayer time and energy trying to perform and persuade. His goal isn’t to judge nor cater to you…it’s to change you into more of Him.

Stop worrying and fretting. Take a glance at his track record; all of the wonders He’s crafted, all of the victories He’s won, all of the situations He’s handled with a mere command…then take a look at your problem. Seems awfully small now, huh?

Stop putting Him on the backburner. He’s God. If you can think of anyone or anything more important, please let me know.

I hate to be a preacher type, but in the wake of so much frustration brewing as a result of our plastic images of God, something should be said. People abhor being “preached” to because no one likes to be told what to do. But this is bigger than that. With all of the stress, pressures, and mind-boggling situations that life dishes out, this is something you not only should do, but NEED to do. You won’t survive this thing without a functioning and biblically sound image of your Savior.

Churches, preachers, and church-folk can truly camouflage the real Jesus with a pretend version of Him that they’d prefer to serve. But His image is clear and simple – He’s your father, He cares for you, He only wants the best for you, and, above all He loves you with an unconditional, agape (perfect) love. Nothing you could ever do or not do could make Him love you any more or any less. Simple.

Burn your plastic Jesus…your sanity depends on it.

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Thank God for Gratefulness

Its Thanksgiving, and I’m thankful that God has taught me the gift of gratefulness. Gratefulness lightens up the pressure of trying to ‘keep up with the Jones’. Gratefulness makes room for consistent, uninterrupted happiness because it shifts your entire perspective of life. Gratefulness is truly a gift that makes room for more gifts – after all, the Bible tells us that God exalts the humble.

Godliness with contentment truly is great gain. Giving God thanks is our ticket to freedom, for the Bible declares that no evil can be spoken of that which is received with thanksgiving. Thanksgiving with supplication grants us the privilege of making our every petition known to the only God who can bring them into fruition. Thanksgiving…what a gift it is.

“When you choose to give thanks, you free God up to do more than He originally planned. Giving thanks is a choice not an emotion.” -Kirk Franklin

Thank God for Gratefulness.

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